Wedding Reception Games Guests Actually Enjoy
How to choose a reception game that guests can finish at the table, and how to print it so the answers stay with the host.
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A reception game works when a guest can start it without leaving their seat or learning a rule that takes longer than the game. Crosswords, word searches, and a short trivia sheet fit on one table. They also fail when the answers were guessed by someone who was not at the wedding.
Use facts you can check
Write the crossword answers yourself: where you met, a pet’s name, a holiday you both remember. If you are not sure of the spelling, look it up before you print. A clue that only one person understands is a private joke, not a game.
Couple trivia is the same. Type the question and the answer. If you offer choices, include the real answer among them. Do not print a question whose answer you would have to invent.
A word search can use the same list. Easy placement is across and down. Harder sheets use diagonals and reverse words, which take longer and need a brighter room.
Print two kinds of page
Guests need the grid and the clues. You need the solution, and you should not leave that page on the table. Check the crossword once: each numbered square should match one clue, and every answer you typed should be on the grid. If a word would not fit, shorten it or change it so it shares a letter. Do not drop it and hope nobody notices.
Print at 100 percent. A crossword that has been shrunk to fit a border becomes hard to write in. Bring a few spare copies and a pen for each table, not one pen for the room.
Keep it short
Eight to twelve clues is enough between courses. A sheet of thirty questions becomes homework. Tell the table the prize is small, and that the host sheet is the one that decides a tie.
